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How to Get Your Wife Back If She Has Moved Out  Uploading ....Question:
My wife moved out from our home a while back but just before she moved out she told me how unhappy she was. I had no idea this was coming, up until then everything in our marriage seemed perfect. Please help me win my wife's heart back. I love her dearly.
Answer:
It's unfortunate that your wife suddenly up and left you especially since you've invested so much time into each other and your marriage. Now I'm no relationship expert, but I know that it is possible to win your wife back if you do the right things at the right time. The most difficult part is knowing where to start and the things that you should do and those you should never do and I'm going to tell you what those are!
For Men's Eyes Only
Your To Don't List
The fist and most important thing that you shouldn't do is badger your wife with phone calls or text messages. By nature, men are more aggressive when it comes to getting things they want and this is especially true when it comes to women. I know it's hard to hear, but you're going to have to resist the urge to go after her right now. Instead the best thing you can do is to take it slow and easy becasue If you don't, there's a good chance you'll scare her off and come off as a possessive jerk. The time and space that you both have needs to be used to get your bearings. Now I can't make any promises here, but if you play your cards right during down-time, there's a good chance she'll start to miss you.
Your To Do List:
The Initial Contact
After you've let some time pass between you, it's ok to contact her, but don't overdo it. My suggestion would be to limit your phone calls or texts to no more than two per day, just enough to let her know you're concerned and thinking about her. Only, and I repeat, ONLY do this if you're goal here is to check up on her. Don't do it if the foundation of your conversation is about getting back together. Take it easy at first and don't come on too strong. Keep the conversation light and casual. Talk about your work day, ask her about hers, but don't steer the conversation towards getting back together.
Work On Yourself:
In between your initial contact and your first one on one meeting, you'll want to focus on yourself. Clean yourself up, get a haircut or a new wardrobe and begin to improve yourself as a guy. A great way to execute this is to write down a list of personal weaknesses and begin to work on these one after the other. Now I understand that marriage is a two way street and your wife was by no means perfect, nevertheless, if you work on yourself to become a better person, your confidence will increase and this will shine through when you meet up with your wife.
Lastly, after you've spent some time on yourself, contact your wife and ask her if she'd like to meet up for lunch or coffee. In the event that she says ‘yes' be calm and don't jump the gun. Like before, just keep the conversation light and simple by discussing when and where you want to meet. If she says ‘no', don't worry because I've got a super cool technique that will drive your wife emotionally crazy by making it feel like you're rejecting her without actually doing so.
Taking action is the key here if you really want to get your wife back.
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